January 7
Top 3 Reasons Couples Seek Therapy
In a perfect world, couples would seek therapy as a preventative measure rather than as a crisis management or “last ditch” effort. But the reality is that most people do not think their relationship would benefit from therapy until it is on the brink of falling completely apart. Through therapy, many couples find this “point of no return” to be one of the most sacred of crossroads because it serves to bring the couple back together.
- Infidelity. Most of us know someone (possibly ourselves) who have been affected by the infidelity of a loved one. When one partner betrays the trust of the other by looking outside of the relationship, the foundation of trust is broken. Without professional guidance, the relationship may indeed come to an end. However, this does not have to be the case. A therapist can help each person understand the complexities of the relationship and the emotions at play between the partners. While infidelity may ultimately be the catalyst for separation, it may also be the catalyst for a deeper and more meaningful connection.
- Substance Abuse. Substance abuse is often something that is recognized years into a relationship. As addiction takes a stronger hold over an individual, his or her behavior is more deeply effected. This can cause a hostile and possibly even dangerous environment. Intimate and casual communication can become fragmented, confusing and hurtful. Couples counseling can help the afflicted partner gain the resources and support necessary to get sober and in turn help both individuals navigate the difficult road to recovery from addiction while keeping their relationship in tact.
- Finances. Economic hardship and differing values and belief systems surrounding money can cause great stress on a relationship. Counseling can help couples reach a compromise on financial matters that effect their relationship. Through counseling couples can develop a long term financial plan that is beneficial for both partners as well as for the very institution of their relationship.
Whether your relationship is being affected by one of these three stressors or you simply desire a deeper connection with your partner, consider the benefits a therapist can bring to the most important relationship in your life. You deserve to give and receive loving intimacy.
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CREDENTIALS
- Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology: Fielding Graduate University
- Master of Music in Piano Performance: University of Notre Dame
- Bachelor of Music in Piano Performance: Southern Methodist University
- License No. and State: 32345 Texas
- Board of Trustees, Dallas Foundation for Psychoanalysis
- Chair, Arts Committee for the Dallas Society for Psychoanalytic Psychology
- Member, National Register of Health Service Providers in Psychology
